Feb 12, 2012

DAY 433: FEBRUARY 6 (addendum)

Tie collage

So the other night I laid out all my ties. Looks pretty cool, huh? I had 66 of them! I came out iwth about 30, and have acquired a few more through trades and giveaways and stuff. My idea is to collect a ton, and then when I come home make a quilt/rug that looks just like it is all laid out, and have a circle in the middle that says "Elder Cardon, Louisiana Baton Rouge mission" and the dates I served or something. Its a cool picture, though you might be interested in seeing it!

-Cam

DAY 433: FEBRUARY 6

Well, this week seemed pretty normal. I never really know what to highlight or expound on, because it seems we do the same thing, and you've all heard it before. Is it not so? We found these two really cool ladies, a mother and daughter. They have been taught just a bit before by missionaries, and one of them works with the branch president of our branch! We've only taught them twice so far, but they understand everything very very clearly, and they both like reading, which is great!

I realized I forgot to tell a really funny story from the other week. I was on exchanges with another elder, and we found this lady to teach, but there was no man home, so we had the lesson on her porch. As we were teaching, it started raining, luckily the patio had a cover. We kept talking, though it was raining quite heavily. Out of nowhere, this guy runs from around the corner towards the porch to get under cover. As he jumps up the stairs (he was coming in at an angle) his feet slip out from under him and he falls sideways, but then spins over really quick and jumps up and gets under the cover. I made a joke and said "Hey, you're a pretty good dancer!". He said, a bit awkwardly, "No, I do martial arts." Definitely had a laugh on that one.

 So for most of my mission, I have actually been making a conscious effort to improve my handwriting. Every day we have to do an hour of language study, sometimes I'll do reading out loud in Spanish or memorizing vocab, but I spend most of it doing exercises in a textbook they gave us at the MTC. So I figured, if I have to write all this stuff, alot of which is really pretty easy, I may as well try to improve something else while I am at it! So I'll just go nice and slow, and focus on making it look perty.

   With cooking, I tried making a split pea soup recipe my mom sent me. I was inspired to do so because a member of the english ward gave the english missionaries with whom we live two bags of tried split peas. It turned out alright. I've never really loved it, and wouldn't have thought to buy them myself, but I did like the way my mom made it, and I didn't quite duplicate it. Even though I boiled it for about an hour, the peas were still a little stiff, and it just overall didn't have the flavor. I've decided that soup-making is a whole other art in itself. I've pretty much mastered the art of pan-frying-random-stuff-and-making-it-taste-good, but with the Tony Chacheres seasoning just about anything tastes good. Potatoes, onions, any meat, and tonys, you really have to try hard to screw that one up.

 Answers to some questions my mom asked:

The work seems to have slowed down a little bit. I don't really know why, I feel like we are doing what we are supposed to, but were just not quite finding as many people as before and the people we have are just being lazy. Laziness will ruin everything. That and pride. If your lazy and proud, you're toast. That's a true principle I have learned. I feel like I get answers to my prayers. I've never really understood how or why or anything really deep about before, but I think I am slowly learning the principle. I am pretty healthy, at least trying to be. Its hard to really make yourself eat well all the time. It definitely takes learning and practice, just like anything. There seems to be an abundance of Chinese buffets here in Baton Rouge. Those are bad news for anyone who want to live healthier.

Well, Ive gotta hurry,were trying to work in a lot of things today, like having a barbecue (we have a little charcoal one on our back porch) and playing racquetball with the mission president! Wish I had practiced more at the Paxmans when I had the chance!

Love,

Elder Cardon

DAY 426: JANUARY 30

So this week we had some cool opportunities to teach and preach and work as missionaries do. Also, to eat. My companion got a gift card for IHOP, so we got to eat some good food that we didn't have to make ourselves! which is nice because I ran out of money quite early this month. Also, we usually do a weekly potluck with our district meeting, so we all eat afterwards and its hit or miss sometimes. I usually bring something good, but some elders I am astonished at the tiny level of cooking creativity they have achieved after having been in the mission for so long. Chips? we told you three days in advance. Really? Apparently they spent ten bucks. So did the other elders, and they brought carne asada, a much wiser way to invest if you ask me.

 
So, we had 3 people with us at church, which was great. We had Juan, who I think I have mentioned before, he almost got baptized the same time as Juan Carlos, but backed because of some doubts about what his family will say. He really does understand everything (I think) He said he believes that Joseph Smith was a prophet, but isn't sure about the book of Mormon being true or not (seems a little backwards), and even came to stake conference 2 weeks ago. Did I share about that? It was pretty cool. Our stake president shared a cool story of when he was a boy and went horseback riding with his friends on a Sunday, and as he was putting on the bridle or something, the horse got spooked and jumped, and tore off half of one of his fingers. So he always has the reminder of the importance of keeping the sabbath day holy. Another elder and I did the translation, I've decided I like translating from English into Spanish rather than vice versa. Because when I'm listening in English, I don't have to think at all about what I hear. I understand its full meaning right off, and I can put it into Spanish really quick. But with Spanish, though I understand what people are saying right off, putting into English words is weird. I guess I don't really know why one is easier than the other, but so it is. So anyways, pray for Juan Padilla that he can receive answers to his prayers.

 
On exchanges, I got to visit one of the other missionaries investigators, who is actually from Brazil, and speaks pretty good Spanish, and used to be a professional musician in Brazil. He had a guitar and a little piano at his place, and it was a BLAST to jam with him. Excellent musician. I have very limited vocab on explaining musical stuff in Spanish, on the few occasions where I have needed it. All I could really say was the note names. And not really even that because in Spanish they usually just say the "do re mi" pattern instead of letters. I taught him some American style music with the 12 bar blues, and we had some fun on that.

Well, that's about it, hope to hear from y'all soon!


Love,
Elder Cardon

P.S. Well yes, you can write me a letter!

Elder Cam Cardon
1343 Jade Ave
Baton Rouge, LA 70810

DAY 419: JANUARY 23

So this week went pretty well, we had some cool training on how to more effectively use Mormon.org and family history in missionary work, and also some follow-up to the event with David A. Bednar about learning by the spirit. It was a really cool training, but I feel that its not quite as applicable to us, because alot of the people we teach don't have computers, and the spanish section of mormon.org has alot less. We also talked a little more about how to deal with people asking questions about the election and answering to all the anti-mormon stuff that is going to rage if (when) Mitt Romney is chosen for candidacy. Also, we had our stake conference this weekend, it was really cool, the branch president and I did the translation, which can give you a headache pretty quick, but it went well.

 
On sunday we cooked up some alligator meat! it was really good. Did it real southern style, pan fried it in a flour and spices breading, really good. I highly reccomend it. Other than that, a fairly uneventful week. Sorry its a short update, but I hope to hear from everyone before next week!


-Elder Cardon

DAY 413: JANUARY 17

Wedding, baptism and revelation!

This was quite an exciting weekend, we had the wonderful opportunity to hear from a member of the quorum of the twelve (Ed. note: Elder Bednar) right here with just the missionaries in our mission! He taught us really neat things in a really neat way, it was alot of question and answer kind of stuff, we were allowed to ask questions and he asked us to make alot of comments, and the spirit was really strong. One of the first things he said was that in this meeting, he wasn't the teacher, the spirit was. Also he said, don't write too much to your family, you wont be able to do this kind of meeting justice in writing. And its true. But I'll try just a bit: Relating to his first comment he said when we go out and teach people lessons, we are not the teacher, the holy ghost is. Often the only side of the General Authorities of the church we see is their more serious side in General Conference. But I don't think they reserve much with a group of missionaries. He said, as close as I can remember "If you actually think that your teaching and expounding ability to explain the gospel at 19 years old is what really converts people, you're an idiot. Do you really think the lord would expect someone with your inexperience to change someones heart? That is selfish, and if you think that, the spirit will not be with you." A point I of course have heard, but am still trying to fully learn, understand and apply.

He also talked about agency. What do you think you know about the principle of agency? Before you read on, just think in your head for a second about what you think agency is. Got it? Are you sure that's what it is? Well, you might be close, but you're probably not quite there, I definitely wasn't. We have agency, but we have expended it when we made our covenants at baptism and at the temple and upon receiving the priesthood. But he said we are agents- all human beings are agents. When we just teach a lesson to someone and spit out all the facts and things they need to be doing, we act upon them as objects- which is denying them their agency, which is Satan's plan. When we invite them to act, we invite them to build faith by becoming free agents. He said this is very important in parenting, that no kid ever took a lesson to heart when it was forced into him or her. He said "now all of you are nodding your heads in agreement. When you are parents and you try to do that with your kids, I hope my voice haunts you." then leaned in and whispered "You're a hypocrite!"

In the time for questions, someone asked about the experiences in being in the quorum of the twelve when Thomas S. Monson was called to be the president of the church. He talked about the way the lord prepares his servants, and there is no way it could be done without pure revelation. Secular companies and groups spend untold millions into researching training for CEOs and other leaders, and it is still imperfect and incomplete. But God does it perfectly. He compared it to a political election, that the craziness and debating and time and complexity that goes into it is unbelievable compared to the simplicity and peacefulness and powerful manifestation of being in the room with 14 of the brethren and setting apart the president of the church. He said in that moment, the spirit was so strongly testifying of the fact that he was the living head of the church that it was undeniable knowledge. Beyond just an impression or prompting or feeling. A true knowledge. He also talked about the upcoming election. I will give a direct quote as closely as I can remember: "There is a high likelihood that a member of our church will be a presidential candidate. If that happens, the wrath of hell will come against this church like you have never seen before. So buckle up." The power in that statement was staggering. And its true. It will really put the church in the spotlight, and we will face alot of opposition. But we will also face alot of opportunities to share the gospel. Then he shared a few examples of prophets and disciples contending with anti-christs in the scriptures, and gave us some advice for the oppositions that will come. overall a really cool meeting.


On Saturday evening, we had a wedding, then a baptism! The wedding was very simple, and the baptism went well also. Before the wedding, I was on the piano playing some peaceful prelude music, and then when we started, they said "alright, lets sing families can be together forever". I'm a decent piano player, and I can play a few hymns, and Ive improved here in the field, but that's not one I can do. So it was rough, at best. The baptism was awesome, just everything went smoothly and as planned, and we had a bunch of people there, lots of support. We had a little reception after with some excellent food., and a cake and everything. Where are the pictures of all this, you ask? Forgot my camera. They ll come tomorrow. They are all doing well, Fernando and Briseyda have a little 4 month old girl named Estrella, and they are excited to go to the temple and get sealed in a year! hope I'll be able to be there! JuanCarlos is also doing well, he is only 19, so its really cool that he is making such a great step this early in his life. I really hope he'll decide to serve a mission, that would be awesome!


Well, that's the main excitement for the week, let me know how every ones doing, and ask me questions if you want! oh and send me letters! 1343 Jade ave, Baton Rouge, LA 70810
 
 

DAY 405: JANUARY 9

Well, I dont have a whole lot of time to write this week, but, we had a good week, and we have some exciting stuff this weekend! An apostle coming to the mission, a wedding, and three baptisms! All this saturday. It will be quite a busy day. On Saturday morning we need to be there (in New Orleans) at 8:30am and we will have a morning instruction from David A. Bednar, then the rest of the day and weekend he will be at the New Orleans stake conference. We have the wedding and baptism of our investigators, Fernando and Bresayda, and also JuanCarlos is getting baptized. He has the same last name of the guy who we baptized in Metarie, who is also named JuanCarlos. Crazy. So we have a wedding to help get ready, they really just want something simple, so it shouldnt be a big deal, but we are really excited for them. I guess the real update will come when all that stuff has happened and you hear all the cool stuff! Sorry its a short one, but you'll hear from me next week!

-Elder Cardon